Libra Nov 6 2012
You have been looking at a problem all wrong. You have a skewed perspective on a sensitive situation - probably because it calls to mind some challenge from your past. You can probably only see one way to solve the problem, but there is a much better way than the one you have in mind. The key to figuring it all out is to get what you're missing - and that would be the perspective and outlook of another person who is involved. Try to imagine you are the other person, and a revelation will offer you the solution.
-- The closest situation, again relates to me and my boyfriend. Our problem - the separation. My perspective - negative attitude towards it. My solution - to break up because I don't think I can be the woman that he wants, but according to this horoscope, "there is a much better way than the one I have in mind."
Then it tells me to look from the other person's perspective who is involved. Well I did try to see it from his POV. I'm a libra and naturally, I want to be fair and balanced, so I do try to walk in the other person's shoes, so I don't get this. Let me do it again, right now as I type....
"I'm your boyfriend and I need some space. You don't appreciate my role as a man and you hate my mom. I'm not asking to breakup but I do need more time to think while you sit at home waiting on me to come back. If you love me, then you'll do this."
Well I do love him... I just don't understand the separation. Even if it has only been 1.5 weeks. It hurts. Really bad. And what did I do to make him want to stay away? As many times as he's pissed me off, 1 or 2 days would have been a sufficient breather for me. But it's not me :-(
Well I'm not sure if that was a revelation, but only time will tell....
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