Sunday, November 11, 2012

Libra Nov 11 2012
If you aren't one of the Librans who has already begun to experience greater abundance, increased prosperity, and a general sense of peace and well-being, it won't be long before you do! The cosmos has special treats in store for the people of your sign. Even if you haven't yet started to sense the positive vibrations that will bring you more of what you want in life, please be hopeful. Look forward to the days ahead as the answer to many of your prayers. If you are still struggling in the areas of money, relationships, or career, know that it will all get better very soon. 

--This sounds great and I definitely look forward to it. I have a possible promotion coming at my job so maybe this has something to do with it. Keep you posted!

Saturday's horoscope

Libra Nov 10 2012
Some alone time may be just what the doctor ordered, Libra. If you find that you're feeling rather edgy or anxious around someone you love, it may be that you need a break from that person. You needn't get away from him or her permanently - just take enough time to balance your emotions and to think through a recent matter that affected you both. Just make it clear that this is a temporary respite to get your head together and clarify your thoughts. You will probably find that your loved one also needs some alone time. 

This relates to me and my boyfriend. He came by Saturday morning to have to family time. We decided that we wanted to work on the relationship again, to make it work. It was a nice two hours but unfortunately he couldn't stay... or didn't want to just yet.

I was upsest, having thought that we came to an agreement, so I couldn't understand why he wasn't ready to come back home. I thought about my horoscope and figured that maybe we still needed this time apart. I felt positive about it until nightfall. I hate being alone at night. Sure I had the kids with me but it's not the same. I called to ask when he would be returning home and he said not tonight. I told him I didn't think it was fair and he assured me he would come back. Again I thought about this horoscope. I thought about it until I dozed off around 11p.m.

I was awakened by the sound of keys in the door tumbler. I opened my eyes and in he walked with his clothes in a bag. I smiled. I guess he changed his mind or had had the time he needed alone.

Friday's Horoscope

Libra Nov 9 2012
As you face an upcoming challenge, Libra, please remember your recent amazing voyage of personal discovery - that's what brought you so many wonderful revelations about yourself and the world around you. Remember too that you are now wiser, stronger, more balanced, and more adept at working through difficult situations. At first, you may forget about your newfound powers, hence the reminder. But once you tap into those powers, you will find yourself to be able to conquer anything you face and transform it into something positive. 

I guess the upcoming challenge was a final talk with my boyfriend. I was upset that he had not yet come back home after having a few nice talks but I did learn quite a bit about myself. We shared stories from our past that gave so much insight as to why we did the things that we did and I learned that I can say some pretty hurtful things and I learned the reasons for my temper flares. We both have a lot of work to do but at this point, I think we were both in a calm state of mind, ready to mend the past.

Thursday's Horoscope

Sorry guys. I fell off again. I'll post all my horoscope readings from Thursday 11/9/12 - Sunday 11/11/12.

Libra Nov 8 2012
Someone is blaming you for - well - everything. This person thinks it's your own fault that things aren't working out in a certain area of your life. This person thinks you have been unwise in your choices, slow in your efforts to correct any issues, and remiss in your duty to initiate damage control. That person, Libra, is probably YOU. You happen to be very hard on yourself under even the most ordinary circumstances, but with something recent that could have a big affect on a future success, you have been merciless. First, forgive yourself and let it go. You did the best you could. Then move on to getting back on track.


Well I guess I had been beating myself up for recent occurrences in my life. The truth is I like to beat myself up in hopes that I will learn from my mistakes and better myself. My day did eventually get better after a long cry-fest.

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Wednesday's Horoscope

Libra Nov 7 2012

A heated debate with a friend or a loved one does not have to end in a conflict or worse - but it could if you aren't careful. There is someone you enjoy sparring with on an intellectual level. This person has intelligent opinions and you find it fun to exchange ideas and battle over opinions with this person. But there is one topic that you may have to consider off-limits, because your beliefs are so different. Tread lightly and try to avoid saying anything that could hurt or offend. 





--I guess this happened this morning at work. Actually I had two separate intellectual conversations with coworkers today. In one conversation I was saying how I believed in god but not so much religion or couldn't take everything holy books say at face value and I could tell that they didn't quite agree, but we moved on to something else quickly so no feelings were hurt (I don't think). 

In the other conversation later that day, I was saying how I hated when people committed suicide because it seemed like a selfish act and neither one of them agreed with me. But nothing got heated.

I guess this one was pretty accurate. What do you think?







Tuesday, November 6, 2012

My Tuesday Horoscope

Libra Nov 6 2012

You have been looking at a problem all wrong. You have a skewed perspective on a sensitive situation - probably because it calls to mind some challenge from your past. You can probably only see one way to solve the problem, but there is a much better way than the one you have in mind. The key to figuring it all out is to get what you're missing - and that would be the perspective and outlook of another person who is involved. Try to imagine you are the other person, and a revelation will offer you the solution. 

-- The closest situation, again relates to me and my boyfriend. Our problem - the separation. My perspective - negative attitude towards it. My solution - to break up because I don't think I can be the woman that he wants, but according to this horoscope, "there is a much better way than the one I have in mind."

Then it tells me to look from the other person's perspective who is involved. Well I did try to see it from his POV. I'm a libra and naturally, I want to be fair and balanced, so I do try to walk in the other person's shoes, so I don't get this. Let me do it again, right now as I type....


"I'm your boyfriend and I need some space. You don't appreciate my role as a man and you hate my mom. I'm not asking to breakup but I do need more time to think while you sit at home waiting on me to come back. If you love me, then you'll do this."

Well I do love him... I just don't understand the separation. Even if it has only been 1.5 weeks. It hurts. Really bad. And what did I do to make him want to stay away? As many times as he's pissed me off, 1 or 2 days would have been a sufficient breather for me. But it's not me :-(

Well I'm not sure if that was a revelation, but only time will tell.... 

 

Monday, November 5, 2012

Monday's Horoscope

Libra Nov 5 2012

You may want to help someone out - someone you see as rather helpless and in need of whatever it is you have to offer. But keep in mind, Libra, that your kindness could be rebuffed as an intrusion. Someone in your life is trying to be more independent, and your lesson in this is probably about letting go, and letting a person make their own mistakes. Besides, you can't help someone who refuses to be helped. Once you make your offer, let it go at that - but be there just in case. 

--I'm guessing this is my 5 year old daughter? I was helping her with her homework and then she got annoyed, so I backed off and let her complete some  problems on her own until she asked for help. I was there for her, just in case ;-)

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Libra Oct 27 2012
There is nothing wrong with blowing your own horn, Libra. When you want to impress someone you care about... when you are looking for an opportunity... or when you just need a reason to feel good - self-praise can be a very healthy thing as long as you don't develop a big head and a superior attitude. But right now it might be better to remain low-key about a certain accomplishment. It's not that you don't deserve the praise, but someone who could be watching might take it the wrong way after experiencing a disappointment of his/her own. Wait awhile.

--I don’t think I could relate anything that happened that day to this.

Libra Oct 28 2012
Time always tells the truth, Libra. You may have doubts now about someone in your life. You are basing this, most likely, on someone behaving in an unexpected way, or saying things that seem to be out of character. You are probably wondering whether you have misjudged this person, and whether there is a big lie at the heart of your relationship. If there is, it can't last. You are gifted at figuring people out, but when it comes to your personal or more important relationships, you second-guess yourself. But the truth will be confirmed when the time is right.

--This was Sunday. I was ready for our fight to be over. I slept one night alone, something I hate, and although I complain a lot to myself about our relationship, I always feel that in the end, it’s not so bad. I did feel as if he had acted in an unexpected way and wondered if he wanted to break up all along, and I did wonder if I was in the wrong and had misjudged him. Either way, the horoscope says that time will tell the truth and at this point, I’m still waiting on it to be revealed.

Libra Oct 29 2012
No pain, no gain. That's what you may be telling yourself about a relationship or a set of circumstances that seems to contain a lot of conflict. You may figure that if you endure some difficulty and you muddle through, like a martyr, you will eventually earn the right for things to get better. But suffering is not a requirement, Libra. You don't deserve what a certain person or a certain situation is putting you through. It's time to stand up for yourself and find a way out of your current drama.

--I guess I can sort of relate to this. I was indeed feeling this way. If I could somehow tuff this out, I would be blessed with either an apology or a better mate. Also that day, I was faced with my electric shutting off if I couldn’t get on a payment plan. Something I didn’t have the money for but he did. He usually always does. But this time he wasn’t here and I felt it wasn’t his responsibility. So I tried not to ask him for the money but I didn’t have it, so I had to humiliate myself by calling him up and telling him about our dilemma. He said that I shouldn’t feel that I can’t ask him for help and that he wasn’t angry with me. It made me feel better, but I was still hurt that he wasn’t ready to come home. Anyway, I guess asking him for the money got me out of that “drama”.

Libra Oct 30 2012
Someone may come to you with a new idea today, seeking your praise and encouragement. The problem is that you may not think it's such a good idea, and being very honest you may not feel inspired to offer encouragement or your blessing. Your candid approach to guidance is very appreciated, and is probably why this person is coming to you in the first place. But you need to step back for a moment and open your mind a bit wider. What this person has to say may take a little sinking in, and encouragement may actually be in order.

--I don’t think I could relate to this one. However, a guy from my job did say that he wanted to talk to me about something but I ended up leaving before he had the chance to. We’re both into film/writing, so I can only assume that it was dealing with that subject matter.

Libra Oct 31 2012
Someone may be trying to change something about you, Libra. Ordinarily, you are open to candid criticisms, as long as they are constructive. But a person in your life would like to change things about you that you probably don't feel need to be changed. Are you sure, though? Isn't there some aggravating habit you consider a burden, or some aspect of your style of relating to others that you think could use some improvement? If so, listen with an open heart and an open mind. A certain small change could make your relationships much better.

--I was excited about this one because Tuesday, my boyfriend and I were scheduled to have another talk on Wednesday. Unfortunately, he didn’t come by because he thought I would be too busy with Halloween. I was, but I still had time to talk. The horoscope made me think, though. I know I’m not perfect but what was the aggravating habit I had? Could it be my temper? Was I really unappreciative? I was looking forward to hear what it was that “someone” wanted to change about me.

Libra Nov 1 2012
There's a country dance called the Two-Step. It can be done to a wide variety of songs. The dancers basically move to the music two steps at a time. That may sound small, Libra, but if you see it in action, it can be quite a lively dance. Couples or single dancers twirl and swoop and generally have a good time. You are now making progress quite slowly with a certain goal - you are moving forward but just one or two steps at a time. But if you really make each of those steps count, and if you recognize the progress for what it is, you will not only get where you want to be, you will have fun in the process.

--This was a fun horoscope but it’s so broad and I can only assume it to have something to do with my relationship. Are we taking small steps at a time towards making it work? Will I really have fun reaching our goal to having a good relationship? I sure hope so because right now, crying almost every day is not fun.

Libra Nov 2 2012
It's time to heal an old rift, Libra. You and someone you cross paths with fairly frequently have an unspoken agreement to avoid each other. You may exchange pleasantries, but you do so only to avoid the speculation or criticism of others. Most likely, this is a family situation and within a family everyone is supposed to get along - even though family is often a source of the greatest conflict. But if you can find a way to forgive and maybe even to forget, it will remove a huge burden from your shoulders, and future encounters will be much easier and more pleasant.

--I don’t know about this one…. Except for the fact that me and my boyfriend’s mother don’t get along. I think I may even hate her because of all the trouble she’s caused and for the way she’s treated me since I took her son away. There are times when we were cordial and able to go out to family dinners but currently we don’t like each other. This horoscope could be speaking of her but I’m not sure. I have no problems with any other (blood) relatives and since I have her granddaughter I guess that makes us family.

Libra Nov 3 2012
You are seeing signs that something is amiss in a key relationship or in a business dealing - yet you keep ignoring those signs. Are you trying to fool yourself? If so, you should know by now that you aren't exactly easy to fool, and eventually you will have to face the truth. Are you deluding yourself because you want to keep something going that really doesn't stand much of a chance? If so, the same applies - you won't be able to do it for long because your sense of justice and fairness won't allow it. Face the situation, and you will be able to move on to something better.

--This reading scared me. Am I deluding myself about this relationship because I want so badly for it to work? I don’t know. Do I think this separation is fair? No, I don’t. But it’s for him. It’s something that he said that he needed and so I’m trying to abide by his wishes. Especially since I left the family for 3 months last year, although it was to pursue my goal of working in Hollywood with intentions to move the family out there had I been successful, but that’s another story. “Face the situation and you will be able to move onto something better.” Does God really want me to move onto something better? Even though we share a child and have been together for 7 years? Only time will tell.

Libra Nov 4 2012
Have you been so involved with a romantic partner or a hobby or your work that you've been neglecting someone who is very important in your life? This person probably isn't someone who would complain, but he or she could be feeling abandoned. You tend to dive into those things that mean a lot to you - often to the exclusion of other things that are equally important but perhaps more readily available. Take stock of your priorities and make sure you are living a balanced life.

--I don’t know who this would be referring to. Could it be my son? Daughter? Mom? Brother? Well I talk to my children everyday of course. My mom, every other day, and same for my brother. These are the closest people to me so maybe this is just a random/off horoscope.

Well those are all the ones from last week. I'll start a fresh post tomorrow. Thanks for reading!

My Libra Horoscope

How accurate is my horoscope?

 As a child I would often wait for my father to finish with the paper so that I could check my Libra horoscope and see if the predictions would come to pass. Often times if not most, they didn’t. All in all they were fun to read. That was over twenty years ago but I’m still intrigued with knowing the future or at least have a hint for guidance. We’ve all taken a look at our horoscopes and there’s a variety of places where we can read them, especially phone apps. My favorite thus far has been Daily Horoscope by Comitric. I don’t know who their astrologers are but they sure are accurate… So accurate that I’ve decided to do a blog about it.

 I’ll be starting from Friday, October 24th 2012. Since it’s been over a week, I can’t remember in detail how my day went but I will try my best and from this point, I will blog about it day by day. Just to give you some background, I’ve been in a 7 year relationship with my boyfriend and we live together along with our daughter and my son from a previous relationship. Our time together has not been perfect but it has its ups and downs and we have loved each other enough to make it work. The following is my horoscope from that date:

Libra Oct 26 2012 If you are faced with a seemingly insurmountable problem in the days ahead, you need to look it in the eye and know that you have the ability to conquer it. Not everyone would, of course, but you do. That's why you need to close your ears to those around you who say it isn't possible to do what you need to do - even if those people are friends, relatives, and others who love you. They are probably just trying to save you from trouble and heartache. But there won't be any trouble or any heartache if you keep believing in yourself, and the ensuing success will prove once and for all that you are extraordinary! -- Copyright © DailyHoroscope. Download it now — http://bit.ly/DHmobile

 --Now nothing happened Friday as it does state “in the days ahead”, however Saturday afternoon, everything changed. I was depressed (as usual), sitting in my room looking out the broken shades at the multi-colored fall leaves on the ground. I was thinking how much I hated my job and how I’m sick of being poor and in a mediocre relationship. How we never have enough for travel, how we stay cooped up in this tiny four room apartment, and how we’ll be stuck here with our salaries. I wanted to talk to him. I just wanted to vent a little so I went into the front room to talk to him. After mentioning the few things that were on my mind, he decided that he had some things on his mind as well. He had a problem with our relationship and went on and on about things that went wrong and our past, things he hadn’t let go of, and overall, how he felt unappreciated. This conversation snowballed into a full fledged argument and even worse, a separation. I asked him to leave (because I thought he wanted to break-up) and so he did. It’s been a week and he’s still gone, even though he still takes the kids to school and we text or talk about some things. The part about friends and family isn’t quite accurate. They know that I can do this on my own if we do decide to separate permanently. I’m the one with doubt but as advised by the horoscope, I’m trying to face this problem in the eye and I look forward to being triumphant.